Sometimes you have to be assertive with spirit. Demanding to a certain degree. Fetch things with might. It’s not a terrible thing if the intention is still pure. Sometimes you really do have to fight, in a real way, for your things. Soft doesn’t always get the work done.
And it’s ok. It’s ok not to be soft at times.
It’s ok to know that you deserve more. And to be hard for your more.
It’s ok for you to shout if you feel you are not being heard. Sometimes you have to shout. And be thunder. To be a strong gust of wind that knocks things over. The universe gets these things.
It’s the good war.