BeautifulMess is an expressive space through which I, Busisiwe Dhlamini, share stories, guidance and perspectives inspired by my own life journey and that of others. It is an extension of my work as a healer.

I began to hold BeautifulMess as a concept close to my heart many years ago after writing a short poem about myself with the same title. It was a spontaneously written piece that captured my imperfectly wonderful nature. I don’t remember what led to my writing that piece, but I do remember the comfort that it gifted me with. I would later learn that my personal piece was everybody else’s story too. We are all as imperfect as we are wonderful.

I now carry BeautifulMess with the intention of holding space for our collective experiences and stories. I hope the content will enrich whatever life path you may be on.

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About Busisiwe

I am a storyteller, writer, brand communications professional and Sangoma who was born and raised in Johannesburg, South Africa. This is where I currently live and work.

I am the owner and founder of BuhleBakho Communications;  a Communications consultancy that guides individuals and small to medium – sized businesses in positioning and expressing their brands effectively and purposefully. Learn more about BuhleBakho Communications HERE

As an initiated Sangoma and spiritual worker, I provide guidance and medicine for spiritual and personal wellness. I fulfill this work with the support and guidance of my ancestors.


    You may reach out to me for:

  • Spiritual divination and guidance/Ukuhlola
  • Personal development and wellness sessions
  • Spiritual teachings
  • Prayer support
  • Speaking engagements
  • Advertising and collaborations with BeautifulMess
  • Brand communications guidance from my company, BuhleBakho Communications


      See the Contact page if you would like to reach out.




Gratitude and contributions towards the work and energy of BeautifulMess is welcome and appreciated. Please refer to the details below.

Bank Account: Standard Bank

Account Holder/Name: BeautifulMess

Account Number: 10155829619

Branch Code: 6342

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